Books That Have Defined My Reading Life

There are always books in our life which have influenced us. They may or may not be relevant to our current lives, but they played important roles during a significant time of our life and it’s not easy to forget their influence. So, when I saw my dearest friend Nandini do a post about the Books that changed her life, I was encouraged to do a similar post. I don’t know if the below books really changed me as a person, but they have defined me in someway or the other.


The Indian epics Mahabharata, Ramayana and Bhagavatam will always be at the top of any important book list for me. I received my first versions of these epics written in Telugu at the tender age of seven and that’s how my reading journey began. I was so mesmerized by these stories and encouraged by my parents to ask detailed questions about them, that they became a very important part of my life. In later years, I have always gone back to these stories for either nostalgia, reading pleasure and even guidance when I really needed it.


I read my first Sherlock Holmes story in a school textbook when I was in 5th grade and there was no looking back. I was amazed by this literary detective and tried to find all his books with whatever little I could afford. The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes was the first book I was able to buy and I just couldn’t put it down. Later came The Hound of Baskervilles and other stories too, and I never stopped feeling in awe of him. That continues to this day and I’m very happy to listen to Stephen Fry narrates these adventures. These books have also defined the kind of TV shows I enjoy and detectives always make my favorite heroes.

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As my parents couldn’t really buy me a lot of books, they were very happy when I picked up something important (in their opinion) like this autobiography of the Mahatma. I was a depressed teenager entertaining thoughts about self-harm when I picked up this book, and it just changed my life. I can’t even say I was completely able to absorb the significance of the lessons from his life, but this book still inadvertantly made me realize the importance of living my life in the best way I can and not lose heart. And I really needed it at the time. I never went back to reading it again, but I will never forget that it saved my life.


I was very late to the Harry Potter party and only started reading it after the release of Order of the Phoenix, but it was a magical journey that is unforgettable. It also made me a lot of friends who are still in my life after more than a decade, so it’s extra special. This series also introduced me to magic and fantasy and teenage heroes, ultimately influencing so many of my reading choices in the later years.

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atlas shrugged

Now, Atlas Shrugged and Fountainhead are two books I read during college and I don’t think I understood the philosophy underlying the stories during the time. But they helped me navigate some very tough times I was going through, and that’s why I had to mention them in this list. They also made me want to learn more about other important philosophers later in my life, so I have to give that credit to Ayn Rand. However, I did try to read them again recently and I can surely say it was not a pleasant experience. And I can also confidently say that I don’t agree with her Objectivist philosphy.


I don’t remember what made me pick up this book but I was completely mesmerized and this paved the way for my interest in the genre. Now anytime there is a new book by Reilly or James Rollins or Steve Berry, I pick them up immediately without even reading the premise because I know I will get an interesting historical mystery and lots of action. I never realized my love for history until I discovered these books and I’m very happy for that.

palace of illusions

As someone who grew up reading the Mahabharata and thinking it’s the greatest book ever, I don’t think I ever tried to analyse it. I just took it as gospel and believed that everything that happened in the story was correct. But all of that changed when I read The Palace of Illusions. Reading the epic from the POV of a woman completely changed my perspective, and I started realizing how the same events can mean significantly different things when we try to see how it affects the female character. I always loved Lord Krishna and Arjuna (I still do) but this book really made me admire Draupadi, because the trauma she undergoes throughout is too much but she displays such strength and resilence, it’s just wow.


I picked up The Wrath and the Dawn on a whim, mainly because my favorite booktuber loved it and I wanted to see what it was about. I had actually gotten bored of reading romances a few years before, so it was after a long time that I was picking up a romance heavy novel. And I was completely blown away. It made me realize that I could still enjoy romance novels, I just had to pick up better ones. And this was also probably my first foray into diverse books and I’m so grateful because diverse romances or fastasies are some of my favorite to read these days.

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I don’t think I have ever been so invested in a book series and it’s characters before Throne of Glass. I mean I adored Harry Potter, but this series became an obsession. I can never forget the sleepless nights, the copious amounts of tears and the massive book hangovers this series gave me. I just felt like these characters were a part of my life and I reveled in their happiness and felt devastated when something bad happened to them. It’s probably the first time I actually lived the phrase “escaping reality and getting lost in a fantasy world” and that’s why it will always have a special place in my heart. And it also cemented my love for novels with female characters who are both strong and vulnerable and are ready to take on the world.

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Another Mahabharata retelling but this time set in space, A Spark of White Fire was a magical read and I don’t think I have had such fun reading a retelling before. I had the best time relating every small moment in this book to the original epic and it has just made me hungry for more such books based on Indian mythology. In a similar vein, A Thousand Beginnings and Endings had a profound impact on me. I just realized how amazing it feels to read stories or retellings based on tales you’ve grown up listening to, but largely remain unknown. It gave me a unique appreciation for my own myths and legends, and also made me realize that I could equally enjoy books which are based on other diverse cultures. Both these books have had quite a huge impact on the kind of books that I am choosing to read this year and I hope I will encounter more such amazing books.

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Have you read and loved any of these books? What are some of the most significant books in your life and how have they affected you? Please feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below…

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  1. Great idea and post! I’ve had a similar experience with mahabarata and Harry. I had a huge impact with The Hate You Give (and I can’t think of another single title , so there’s that)

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  2. This is such an amazing post! I relate with Harry Potter. I became a fan after all the books were released but it remains one of my main books in life.
    I really want to read Palace of Illusions and I just got a copy so hopefully I can read it soon😊
    Again, love this post 💛

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    1. Everyone is saying Hp… it’s awesome that so many of us have it in common 😃😃😃
      Palace of Illusions is definitely amazing.. I hope you’ll love it too…
      And thank you for reading !!!


  3. This is amazing!

    I completely relate to Harry Potter (as I’m sure most of us can!) and I’ve been wanting to get into Sherlock and Throne of Glass for the longest time.

    I’ve tried to read Atlas Shrugged and just could never get through it. I agree that the Objectivist philosophy is not for me, either :/ But I understand what you mean about it getting you through a particular period of time – there are definitely books like that for me!

    Wonderful post 🙂 ❤

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    1. Thank you so much Hannah…
      I guess HP will probably be on most lists 😁😁
      Throne of Glass is an interesting one… it causes such polarizing reactions in readers and I guess that’s what makes it so fascinating… I’m totally on the obsessive side though 😜😜
      I always wanted to read Atlas Shrugged after I became older because I felt I didn’t understand it much in college, but when I try it now, it’s totally not my thing… 😂😂😂

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  4. Lovely post idea! Harry Potter has definitely been so important in my reading life, but it was the Twilight saga that made me fall in love with reading. I didn’t read until I was 15 or so, when I picked up Twilight for some reason, and now here I am!

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    1. Ohh I totally see how Twilight must have been an influence… it was such a phenomenon…
      I think it hardly matters how we started as long as we got here 😊😊😊


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